A Legal-Adjacent Email Series

How Family Court Systems Interpret Behavior Over Time

What most parents never realize until it’s already documented, reviewed, and used against them.

Mike Khader is an attorney who has spent more than two decades observing how family court systems interpret behavior over time.
His work focuses on helping people understand how systems function in practice — how records are read, how patterns are formed, and how meaning is assigned once behavior enters a formal process.

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This series does not offer legal advice. It does not tell anyone how to behave.
And it does not attempt to predict outcomes.
It explains process.

  • How behavior is interpreted once it enters a family court system

  • Why patterns often matter more than individual moments

  • What tends to carry weight over time inside formal processes

Here’s exactly what this email series covers.

Day 1: After 20 Years in Courtrooms, Here’s the One Pattern I Never IgnoreDay 2: Parents Aren’t Reckless. They’re Uninformed.Day 3: What Gets Lost When Behavior Leaves Its Original ContextDay 4: In Court, Passion Matters Less Than PatternsDay 5: When Ordinary Actions Are Viewed Through a Different LensDay 6:. How Momentum Forms Without Anyone Intending ItDay 7: The System Isn’t Personal and That’s the PointDay 8: Learning to See the System More Clearly

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